Number of such deleted profiles now becomes a success metric. Also I would love to know when site really works well (e.g. people stay together for a long time or even marry), that's why I would love to send an email after some time. Imagine someone getting married, because they met here - this would help to popularize the site a lot.

The goal is to give more info to prospective, new and existing users as well as improve discoverability of the site. If you would like to do a guest post, please reach to me.

This is the first case I am aware of people succesfully meeting romantially via the website. I wish them all the best and please tell when you get married :)

Previously entire message was shown, which might have been inconvenient.

There is "archive" button when viewing the thread. A new message in the thread will unarchive it.

Basically there are quite a few users already and my "anecdotal" approach does not work well anymore - thus, let's just vote for ways to improve the site.

When you register as "User", you can login using "user", "USER", "uSeR", "useR" etc.

Previously it was on a separate page.

Looks like occasionally they are not delivered.

The development was already feedback driven, but it was very anecdotal (people suggested ideas to me, I tried to assess impact). I hope to get more quantative data from the form. I plan to add possible features to the form and let people vote.

Previously they were sorted by when the last message was sent. As a result one could have missed some thread with a new message (especially if it was off the screen).

Previously to update matching preferences one had to go through 2 other pages before getting there. Now there are separate links from "settings" page.

Same as before Enter alone sends the message.

Username existance check during registration is already case insensitive. There are usernames in DB, which differ only by case, so I will reach to their owners before making login case-insensitive too.

To do so, click on "<" or ">" in front of the message to quote. I will think how to spread the news better, so far no good idea.

Otherwise one could send the same message by mistake previously (I did this multiple times).

Previously one could get at most one such email per day. This meant that all following messages in the same day triggered no email. In the new system, there is no "1 email per day" limitation and one can get more than one email notification per day if they receive more messages after the first email and don't read them.

Very occasionaly some users asked me to delete their accounts. Just deleting all their data would create bad experience for people they interacted with. The new approach preserves e.g. the fact that there was a request and shows that account was deleted (i.e. one can't see anything about the account, but it is obvious that there was a requests).

In other words profiles with more information will be shown first.

Previously one could see only ~20 characters, now at least 5 lines.

Previously locations were stored just as strings. This had drawbacks. I rewrote this completely. Now I can approve some cities and new users will be able to choose them or to add new ones. I haven't started approving existing cities yet.

I've added a mechanism to get email delivery confirmations from Amazon. Hopefully this will allow pinpointing the issue better (and actually checking how bad it is).

Normally other people see only your blured photo (unless you approve them). Now you can disable this and everyone will be able to see your original photo.

I've got an impression that these emails are not delivered more often, so I decided to try my luck. Unfortunately, from the website perspective everything works well and it looks like later in the email service something breaks. As a result, it is super hard to investigate.

Some people reported that they don't receive some emails, I am investigating and this error logging should help.

To be honest this one is a bit controversial. First, many people don't want provide their ages, so I had to add a special option to be matched with people "with no age". Second, age is a weird thing. At least I had experiences in my life, which according to society views would be impossible due to age difference, but they were amazing. So, please, when you have some strict age preferences consider at least making the window quite broad.

I've deleted them from database and cleaned up the code.

If you were wondering why your request has no response, it is a good time to have another look, perhaps it had been denied.

The new messaging system is much better - safer (you decide who sees what) and more convenient (you can agree on some mean of communication if you want to move somewhere). I will soon delete all the contact details data and remove all the remaining UI (e.g. edit forms) related to it.

This way you can quickly see whether there is something new, just by visiting the main page (similarly to "new" marker on all messages page). Please accept or deny incoming requests to resolve them.

Usernames are case sensitive and this is a source of confusion. Now "reset password" email contains your username explicitly. You don't have to reset your password though, you can just delete the email.

Previously some photos were shown sideways. I've added code to handle "orientation" tag of the file. Please reupload your photo if it is currently sideways. If it is still sideways after you reupload, please report.

This was main communication mechanism before built-in messaging was implemented. It is not needed anymore, but users who registered earlier might still rely on it. As of now, users who don't have any contact details won't be able to add them. Users who have something still can edit.

Now it includes height, current relationship status and views on children, religion. All are optional.

Unsubcription is only 1 click, you don't even need to sign in. Only people whose request you accepted or whom you sent a request can send you message, so this should be low traffic. Moreover, currently I send at most 1 such email per day (because I couldn't figure a good way to prevent sending emails for messages which you will read in a moment e.g. because you chatting right now - I am working on a better solution).

The design is suboptimal, but I want to bring to you something usable as fast as I can.

This is very early stage, I am already working on couple improvements (e.g. page with all threads).

At this point all critical pages are usable on mobile.

To be honest I designed everything only for desktop originally. Thus, it looked terribly on mobile. Now it should be much more readable.

Larger pictures take too much time to load (especially on mobile).

Both female and male partner genders can be selected at the same time. This is especially handy when looking for friendship.

All the text now is at least of appropriate size. Positioning may still be weird.

Now everything should be well clickable on mobile.

Each profile now have "relationship type", which can be "romantic" or "friendship". All existing profiles automaticaly get assigned "romantic". You will matched only with people, who look for the same relationship type and fullfil all other already existing criteria.

I noticed that people write country names differently, so now there is a predefined set to choose from (this makes the matching process much better).

Unsubcription is only 1 click, you don't even need to sign in.

For some of them file permissions disallowed the webserver to serve them. I now set proper file permissions when uploaded + fixed existing cases manually. Sorry for the inconvinience!

I definitely don't want to bother you with emails, each email contains link to unsubscribe (only 1 click is needed, no sign-in, nothing else).

If there are no matches from your city, people from your country will be shown as well.